Monday, November 30, 2009

TOP 10 WAYS -WOMEN HARASS MEN

Fox News has compiled a list of top 10 cruel things that women do to men
and how they play with the guy's emotions or ego.

10. They don't pick up the phone
While men feel good as they manage to take the girls' phone number, the girls
often give them a fake number or don't pick up the call.

9. Use men for free drinks
Some women go out never planning to spend any of their own money on drinks at
the bar or club. Instead, they count on their feminine wiles to convince guys to
shell out for their libations. While some of them might begin to get to know
him, the cruel and heartless ones will take that drink, flirt a little and move
on.

8. Use men as placeholders
If she is a decent person, she'll just get it over with and dump the boy, but if
she's cruel, she'll hold on to him for a while until somebody new comes along.
These girls don't like to be alone and without a relationship, so instead of
putting you out of your misery and ending it, she'll string you along until she
meets someone to replace you.

7. Emotionally manipulate men
Men don't like to see women cry and some cruel women take advantage of the fact
and use it to get what they want. A few tears would make men do anything to get
it to stop.

6. Use physical violence
While men hitting girls are often termed nasty, some cruel women feel it's
perfectly acceptable to hit their boyfriends, as he would never hit her back.
This type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind physical pain on him
without fear of repercussion.

5. Criticize their men in public
Cruel women criticize and humiliate their men in public places. They often poke
fun at her man or even soundly debase him.

4. They don't disclose their relationship status
It's certainly not the worst thing a woman could do to a man, but it is annoying
when she's already in a relationship and lets you assume that she's available so
that she can enjoy the man's flirtation and flattery.

3. They withhold sex
This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men.
For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to
get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a
pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective.

2. They test their men
You're all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend
calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn't have
any particular reason; she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans
to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you'd come over to her
place instead. If her request comes with an "if you really loved me," then it's
a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side,
you're going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and
petty.

1. They flirt to inspire jealousy
Maybe she's feeling underappreciated, maybe you've just had a big fight or maybe
she just enjoys the tortured look on your face. For whatever reason, girls who
flirt obviously with other guys in front of their boyfriends are immature and
manipulative.


IN INDIA THERE IS A REASON WELL ABOVE ALL THIS:

WOMEN MISUSE THE LAWS OPENLY AND FILE FALSE DOWRY HARASSMENT CASES , DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE , SCREW THE GUY & HIS FAMILY & EVEN WHEN THE CASES ARE PROVEN WRONG ..THEY WALK AWAY TENSION FREE.

DONT EVER DREAM TO MARRY AN INDIAN GIRL.

I AM ASHAMED TO BE AN INDIA & MARRY AN INDIAN GIRL !!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Domestic Violence- Truth and Reality

October is "Domestic Violence Awareness Month". India is observing “Domestic Violence Awareness Month" for the first time this year to make it an International event for all men’s rights and fathers’ rights groups across the world.Four organizations in Hyderabad viz. Save Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting, are launching this campaign on 2 October because it is the International Day of Non-Violence, an occasion meant for disseminating the message of non-violence through education and public awareness.Beginning today, our month-long campaign will focus on educating the Indian public about how the problem of domestic violence has, for decades, been misrepresented, how domestic violence has been commercialized, and how Indian laws claiming to prevent domestic violence are actually promoting domestic violence and human rights abuses against men, women and children. We will also urge lawmakers and the Government to make appropriate reforms in laws and policies and make gender neutral provisions to end domestic violence against men, women and children.
The truth about domestic violenceUnbiased research on domestic violence the world over shows that:1) Domestic Violence is not a gender issue.2) Men and children are victims too.3) Women are just as likely as men to commit domestic violence.4) Women initiate domestic violence just as frequently as men do.5) Men and children are less likely to report the incident when they are abused by their wives/girlfriends and mothers respectively.6) Women’s organizations spread myths about domestic violence (e.g. Men are always the aggressors and women are always the victims).7) Media coverage is often biased (e.g. A young married woman committing suicide is automatically reported as dowry death, and a young married man committing suicide is attributed to financial/family problems or mysterious reasons).8) Politicians and bureaucrats find no incentive in addressing domestic violence by women against men, children and fellow women.
Indian laws against domestic violenceIndian laws against domestic violence are irrational and discriminatory, and blatantly violate provisions of the Indian Constitution and the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.• The Universal Declaration of Human Rights proclaims that “everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law.”But Indian laws against domestic violence presume that the accused is guilty until proven innocent and violate universal principles of fair trial.• Article 21 of the Indian Constitution states that "no person shall be deprived of his life or personal liberty except according to procedure established by law".But every year, over 1 lakh innocent persons (one innocent person every 5 minutes) are arrested under IPC Section 498A, including 4,000 innocent senior citizens (one innocent elderly person every 2.5 hours) and 350 children (one child per day) without evidence or investigation.• The Universal Declaration of Human rights states that “all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law". Article 14 of the Indian Constitution declares that “The State shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of the laws within the territory of India.”But Indian laws against domestic violence blatantly deny protection to men against any form of domestic abuse, and every year, over 56,000 married men commit suicide due to verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment.• Indian laws against domestic violence are touted as tools for women's protection and empowerment.But in the last four years alone, over 1,23,497 women have been arrested under IPC Section 498A alone, without evidence or investigation, not for committing any crime under law, but only because they were related to a man.
The Domestic Violence IndustryIn India, domestic violence against wives is addressed by close to 15 laws (civil and criminal) including the infamous IPC Section 498A and Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA). However, there are no laws to protect husbands, children and other family members of the husband from domestic violence by wives. The credit goes to the Domestic Violence Industry and its stakeholders (women’s organizations, law enforcement machinery, legal fraternity, politicians and bureaucrats) whose survival depends on inciting and fueling a gender war, spreading myths and false statistics about domestic violence, encouraging false allegations, breaking families, and siphoning funds in the name of women’s empowerment from National and International funding agencies.If the problem of domestic violence is solved, would not the booming Domestic Violence Industry, which is immune to all vagaries of the economy, suddenly go bankrupt? It is no wonder that as more and more draconian and inhuman laws are passed under the guise of protection of women, we keep hearing that domestic violence against women is increasing, instead of decreasing.Consequently, Indian taxpayers have spent lakhs to implement draconian laws and policies in the country. And the verdict is clear – these laws and policies: Trample on Constitutional Protections and Human Rights. Hurt men, women and children. Divert limited funds away from the real victims.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month activitiesSave Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting are organizing a campaign in Hyderabad (1) to spread awareness on “The Truth About Domestic Violence and Indian Domestic Violence Laws”, and (2) to urge lawmakers and the Government to reform the present discriminatory laws, and make gender-neutral provisions for the benefit of men, women, children, families and the society.Our month-long campaign in Hyderabad includes the following activities:October 2 - Press Conference to mark the beginning of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.October 11 - Launch of All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA) for protection of men and boys against gender discrimination, domestic violence, sexual harassment and other forms of abuse.October 18 - Cultural program to spread awareness regarding the truth about domestic violence, and launch of Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association (APMPA) for protection of mothers-in-law against discrimination, domestic violence, legal harassment and other forms of abuse.October 25 – National Rally in Bangalore marking the third anniversary of the inhuman, ill-conceived Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA) as BLACK DAY.We will also be doing a massive flier campaign across the city throughout the month.Similar activities will be conducted in other cities across the country like Bangalore, Lucknow, Chattisgarh, Nagpur and Delhi.We request members of the print and electronic media to attend our events in large numbers and take part in the Domestic Violence Awareness campaign by providing extensive coverage for our events.